Everyone loves to enjoy sex and to be able to satisfy their sexual partner. But it is easier said than done because what works for one may not work for others and sex being such an intimate and private matter, not many people are comfortable discussing about it frankly and openly and revealing what they like and what they don’t.
So a lot is left to imagination and chance when it comes to sexually satisfying each other. Oral sex is one of the methods that can greatly enhance the sexual pleasu re, but provided it is done rightly and correctly. In today’s post we will find out what are the simple things you could do to make oral sex more pleasurable for her and how to get the maximum out of your tongue and lips.
Why is the mouth so special?
Well, the oral cavity is actually a wonderfully versatile part of your body. In addition to having a muscular structure within called the tongue, it also is guarded on the outside by a set of soft, warm and beautiful lips. Also you have a set of teeth within that could be also used to enhance the sensations.
Your tongue is not only warm and strong but it also can be flexible and it is wet too. You can do a lot of things with your tongue if you skillfully direct it. Your buccal cavity or the mouth cavity also can be used for sucking motions or to blow warm air.
When you already possess such a versatile body part with you, it would really be a shame if you did not gain the maximum advantage mileage out of it.
The tongue trip
Most of us think of the tongue as useful only in genital stimulation during sex, but if you are shrewd enough you could do a lot more with it. The first thing you must understand is that a woman’s body is sensitive at a lot of other places too and some of them are totally not related in any way to her sexual parts.
For example the nape of her neck and the base of her chin, her throat, behind the ears, her navel, her sole and bend of knees, thighs, bend of elbows, her arm-pit etc. are some great trigger points that you could explore with your warm and moist tongue. Rolling your tongue over these areas will definitely give her a powerful stimulus and she is going to love it.
A sure shot method of making her enjoy a great orgasm later on is by stimulating only the parts of her body that I mentioned above for some time, and not go anywhere near her genitals or breasts. What this does is that it puts the nerves of her entire body on edge and she will have heightened sensations in anticipation of your next tongue stimulation.
You can even see if she is ready by observing for goose bumps on her skin and at this point of time you could slowly and sensuously start using your tongue on her nipples and then the clitoris. If you do this slow and sensual treatment to her she will certainly explode with an orgasm within a short while.
You cannot forget your lips when indulging in foreplay. Use these warm and moist lips to firmly enclose her ear lobes, her nipples or even her vulva and clitoris. Another trick is to hold some ice in your mouth for a few seconds and then spit it out. Now your mouth is chilled and when you use this cold therapy on her sensitive nerve endings they are bound to react favorably and help her enjoy a great orgasm.
Oral sex need not be only about genital stimulation. Use your imagination and make the most of your mouth and tongue and take your act to greater levels.